I like to get dam dam she likes to be light skin and we joke about it now but I hate the divide it brings and won't accept it myself and we are happy with how we are and try educate others if we can but I suppose like the blm thing that's about now it will always be their if not hidden sad but it's life🙂
my wife has told me that she is looked upon as ugly because her skin is dark meeting me and living on and off in UK she now lives herself and knows both side of the coin a bit like money most want to be rich and not worry financially about anything but it also destroys life
I guess it's just education and knowing from both sides you understand that in the end it's not important any way as long as your happy with yourself nothing is beyond happiness
Black white is irrelevant ask a blind person what they see