@Henrik ****

got loads good advice . Not one for groups tbh so not joining one for every purpose in life . Like I said got good feedback and know what direction to go now .

@Peter *******

lol

@Peter *******

really . I thought he easier her giving birth family support etc . Don’t want to stitch up the system so to speak . I’m surin November til dec was along lines bring her a month or two and take her back for birth etc .

@Paul ******

yeah will do deffo . That’s ideal for me I’d like do here’s shit months out there and have her here the opposite.

@Andy *********

wtf 4000 a month . Mine was bargirl cha am but I took her home to Surin so I look after her even though she got work in beauty shop ( prior to pregnancy) that was her money told her if she helped family be ok etc . I’m not divorced til September so didn’t wanna jump straight in . But if she liked here and made easier I would marry her

@Peter *******

see now we along my line of thinking ! It all seems very vague and the requirements irrelevant so to speak , money in bank I get, proof of return I accept , . She may not stand it , kids wise I’d feel terrible dragging her away from children - albeit this seems accepted . Why thought holiday best option and she would not be here full 6 months more like 2 , as I’d take her back to Thailand to have the child . Maybe it be I end up there albeit I’d live somewhere else than Surin but then I’d come back 6 good months to work . Be nice if could get her here once and if we was in position to travel to and fro easily be nice . I’ve got an agent I’m going talk to see what he suggests

@Peter *******

but seems you think I’m in Thailand and I don’t want to be there ? I don’t want to be Uk . So we trying all angles .

Yes I’m in the uk ?? And I don’t want to be so would not force it upon her ??

@Peter *******

I even say I don’t want to be here ???

@Peter *******

na don’t think I did . Think making assumptions. It’s all trial and error she would be going back Thailand have baby regardless , if she didn’t want to be here I wouldn’t make her I’d do monthly . I don’t think any mother should be away from children but she says be fine etc , but I know I hate being away from mine . If she liked it here I’d do it the right channels anyway . This is only holiday visa and like I said she be going back to give birth