Married to a Thai national when arriving at swampy can I go through Thai immigration with the wife to get. My passport stamped n collect bags

Hello, I would like some advice regarding the following: I, holder of a passport (Netherlands) that can enter with visa on arrival, want to enter Thailand from Turkey. 30/45 or a 60 + 30 days visit. My legal wife however holds a another passport (Colombia) for which a visa is required, and that causes some problems. I would actually have to travel to Ankara first to get a visa at the Thai Embassy for her...or is there a possibility that she, being married to a European, can enter under the same conditions as me? Dropped the same question at the Thai Embassy, but didn't get any reply so far...Thanks!