@Roger *********
I think you made the wise choice--the idea to file appeals, and "stand your ground" ( not even sure what that means--?? argue, become angry and abusive, or just refuse to budge until they have u thrown out or arrested?? then try to return to submit ur forms and see the reception u might get?)
like u shared, u can only roll with what is demanded, over 20 years of living here has shown me, and many others clearly, you RARELY, get too far with taking on the aggressive/assertive role-- oh, yes, you'll hear this guy and that claim to have done so, and "showed them", but most such stories are just pure bs! it makes some feel good to act tough. you made the best choice for your long term interests in working with that office.