@Paul ******
not to beat a dead whore :O er horse BUT you've been in this country for the last SIX months on that 90 day Non-O entry. :(
you're telling me in that time you never thought about getting the 400K baht in the bank for 2 months so you could apply for a yearly extension based on marriage at the immigration office?
Well, be that as it may you MIGHT <- as in maybe, be able to apply for a 60 day visit thai family extension that doesn't require proof of funds at the immigration office
AND
hopefully that would give you time enough to get the funds in a thai bank account in your name only and let them season the 2 months they need to be before you then apply for the year extension