I understand exactly what you're saying dude I lived there for almost 10 years I am unfortunately divorced but I have a beautiful 8 year old son that I'm very proud of. I have no problem with the bar girls some of them do have good intentions but some are struggling with addiction or some other issues. I don't care what background any of the women have but at least have to have good intentions and to be honest. I hope everyone can see the positive in all situations too