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How can I marry a Thai woman and live in Thailand?

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Dec 12, 2022

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Marek **********

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Hello. 

I am Polish guy living and working in UK. I want to marry a wounderfull Thai woman, she wants this too. I would like to live on Thailand . She lives in Pattaya and I want to stay there. Could anyone give me answer how to do this , please?

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A Polish man living in the UK wishes to marry a Thai woman residing in Pattaya and seek information on how to live in Thailand. Community members suggest considering a marriage visa but highlight financial requirements such as maintaining a bank balance or a steady income. They advise spending substantial time together before marriage, potentially starting with a tourist visa, and emphasize the importance of understanding personal circumstances and local realities in Pattaya.

Marek **********

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I dont understand all negative comments and I dont even answer. Everytime I see her , I dont pay anything and I stay with her for free. I live in her house and use her car. We spend all the time online talking and even sleepping when I am away. What is wrong with you guys?

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Michael *******

@Marek *********

they are called stupid moronic trolls who have nothing better to do than try and be negative a**holes

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Marek **********

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@Michael ******

thank you . You made me feel better

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Terary **********

ALWAYS RENT!!!

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Gregg *************

And bring your checkbook laddy🙈😂🦊

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Gregg *************

Do more research hombre

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Mark ******

Why would anyone think this was a serious question and not a troll?

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Mark ******

All that information, past history and stories, are widely available on the internet. THAT is the reason I 100% believe this was a set up. The guys you refer to would be too ignorant to even post such a question. If you are smart enough to ask the question, google can give you a lot of information resources with answers.

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John *****

Thats completely understandable, that most rational people would think the way you do.

However pause for a moment and view this video below.

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Imagine this chap or someone like him having the logical sense to think this through?

Unlikely I would say.

Is it his fault that his processing power is less.🤔. 😅

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John *****

believe it or not-there are many men who are 1)naive 2)let their groin take over their rational thought

3)just plain ignorant and thick as a door knob 😂

For these people-entirely understandable if they ask such a question.

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Luc ********

Another dreamer or mole.

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John *****

I have seen at least half a dozen people whose lives were totally screwed up after going down this route.

Anyone who thinks of marrying a Thai lady should definitely read this book available on Amazon before taking any foolish or rash decision.

You only have one life don’t screw it up!

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Chris *****

exact .

First look like dream, but After few years if no have any job , dream go nightmare .

Better take condo in Pattaya or any Big city

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Chris *****

1) buy her 5baht gold

2) marry her and 100.000 thb party

3) buy her home in issan

4)buy her car and motorbike

5) go back pattaya bar 😈😈

6) go back UK game over

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Mark *********

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Otto *********

No.

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James ***********

Straight to the point. I like it.

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Chan *****************

I am only here to read the comments

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Frank **********

Go to Thailand Embassy website and find out.

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Mich ***********

Wouldn't the obvious answer be to fly to Thailand and marry her, apply for a marriage visa and then live in Thailand happily ever after?

Or an I missing something?

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James **************

Get as much £ as u can here in uk, then go there and back a few times but work here...then if ur English is goid ebough go and teach English as a NNES, ud prob only get 30k bhat a month but youll get the all important work visa.

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Alan *******

Shaun Hooker Sure but then what’s the job? Very few jobs for foreigners in Thailand that pay much of anything.

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Alan *******

@Mich **********

Unless he’s got enough money to last the rest of his life in Thailand, you’re missing the part where he needs to have some kind of income while in Thailand

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Mich ***********

lol well if that's what the guys asking for I hope he let's me know what the answer is too! If only it was that easy 🙏

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Alan *******

@Mich **********

Too true

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Sameal ********

Check her phone and messenger first 😁😁😄😅

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Canice ******

Depends how deep your pocket

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Alessandro **********

Easy

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John ******

If you're sending her money, there's a likelihood she has a few other guys doing the same - this is the holy grail for many girls!

Take Kool Breez's advice and hire a private detective.

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Jae *****

John Burr What make you have a such offensive sentiment? Of course you would get fool by girl if your intentions is to pay for some kind of services at first and turn to be your girlfriend. Try find someone classy mate.

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John ******

Tonpalm Saipuianyangdee,

Don't be so naive. This is much more common than you may realise.

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Marek **********

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I always live in her house if I am in Thailand and I have never paid any money. She has her own buissness. We are just looking for the option for me to stay here😁

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Alan *******

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It’s all about money. Either you have a business you can operate from or in Thailand, have a job you can work in or from Thailand or have enough assets already to move to Thailand and retire.

That’s really all there is to it, unless she makes enough money from her business to support you.

Once you’ve sorted out your money situation. you just have to see which visa type makes the most sense given your age, finances and whether or not you’re willing to marry her.

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Richard ********

Marek Uwazaj 95% ze ona cie przekrecji

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Kal *********

Yikes ... good luck with that ...

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Deco *********

Get a Grip

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Carey *******

Ah Ohhhhhhh

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Giovanni ****************

Troll

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Ryan ***********

Are you trolling you are already in Thailand driving around 😳🙄

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Steve **********

Whole in Poland, rob a bank, a big one since its Pattaya, not Isaan.

You'll be very happy

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Sri **********

Check the ID lady or ladyboy 😀

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Оливер *********

Stay and work in UK!

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Stephenie **********

My first piece of advice is take her out the bar, in fact take her out of pattaya.

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@Stephenie *********

These girls might have 10 foreigner who pay them every month, so they don't "have to work in bar".

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Stephenie **********

yes, thats my worry. The polish guy just be another sponsor

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Mark ************

🙄

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Andy *******

What could go wrong

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Martin *********

Establish how many sick buffalo are in the family and work out the mathematical equation.

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Luciano ***********

@Martin ********

awesome answer great help

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Martin *********

@Luciano **********

welcome

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Joris **********

Are you sure he's female?

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Kool *******

If she is currently living in Pattaya then I would hire a private detective to make absolutely sure you are the only male she is seeing on a regular basis. Are you currently sending her money?

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Sid *******

absolutely

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David ***********

It's a long process. I would move first on a visa (whatever one fits you). Think about marriage later. Many +s and -s. Happy to talk if you want to DM me.

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Mansa *************

Can you sure to trust thai lady who lives in Pattaya?

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Sid *******

@Mansa ************

yes be very careful! As the saying goes Money's honey love is bullshit!

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Mansa *************

no money no honey. Lol

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Mansa *************

Hopefully you are a lucky man forever

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@Mansa ************

exactly.

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Dimitris ************

I won’t say the obvious as your question is how to live and marry in Thailand, but I will just repeat:

1. Come and live with her at least 3-6 months before attempting anything

2. Marry no marry you can come as a tourist and do visa runs to achieve this length of stay

3. If over 50 you can apply for retirement visa 1 year

4. for marriage visa Paulo send a link in this chat

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@Dimitris ***********

I agree, especially about the minimum of 6 months, more like one year or more. You need a lot of time to get to know someone and short visits do not count. If she is interested in you she does not need to marry right away and will wait, if it is you that wants to marry right away, buyer be warned.

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Mansa *************

@Dimitris ***********

a good comment

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John ********

Marriage visa

But your problem is how will you make any money in Thailand

Do you have the

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thb every month

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Michael *******

If you can’t figure that out on your own give up

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Mg *****

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sounds like a perfect marriage 🤣

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