@Donna *********
sorry on that note we're done. While I have no problem answering questions what I am not is going to spoon feed you answers. You want a covid extension read that post you were linked to and then slog on out to your immigration office and apply for one. You know where to go, you know what section to go to, and now it's on you to pull it off.
Again, no disrespect intended or implied,
BUT
you're a grown up who managed to get all the way across the world on your own without someone holding your hand, I know you can pull off getting a covid extension
AND
while you're there asking at counter C-1 for the hand out for trailing spouse Non-O too
Good luck, take care (y)