@Kevin ********
It is not always as malicious as that. If Thai's have something, they always like to show off to friends & family.
If you an older man, you are automatically the Host same as the West. The difference is that in the West, your lady does not invite all her friends on a date.
But the first time maybe a miscommunication but if you keep paying for everything, without a complaint, they will take advantage and maybe even mock you to her friends.
When you first arrive, it is a celebration (but you pay for everything). You need to make her understand that not everyday is a party.
If you come for 30 or 60 days, they want to get as much as they can. If that is their intent.
I went along with you about being treated like a Human ATM, but it is not always intentional or malicious.
Don't get carried away.