and I think that
@Ph**
now understands that his visa is VALID until the 14th of November <- meaning he has until then to ENTER thailand when he will be stamped in for 90 days.
So to re-cap
IF he is using 400K baht banked money as the method to meet the proof of funds to get an in country yearly extension of stay that money needs to be in a thai bank account in his name only for 2 months before he applies for the yearly extension.
IF he can't or doesn't want to get a yearly extension he can get a 60 day extension based on visiting thai family for 1900baht at the immigration office without the proof of funds.
AND
It think he also understands that once this current Non-O runs out he can go to the thai consulate in Savannakhet and get a NEW year-long, multi-entry Non-O visa based on marriage with NO proof of funds at all.
That's about it. Decide what you're going to do, get here and work on meeting the requirements for the course of action you select.
Good Luck (y)