Answered5 years ago
What are the options for a Thai friend in the UK whose spouse visa was refused after experiencing domestic abuse?
Hi all, asking for a friend. My Thai friend is in the UK and suffered abuse by her husband and will be getting divorced. She applied to renew her spouse/settlement visa but it was refused. She wants to stay in the UK as she has made a life and friends here. What options does she have to stay and appeal? Any help would be appreciated.
Additional Comment. I can see some comments have been removed but it is a shame on a site like this that you have some awful comments being made, referring to people as imported etc. Just from trying to get some advice for a friend who has had a visa affected by being abused I have been made to feel unwelcome. I thought the heavily medicated Trolls were mostly on Twitter. Be kind people. Meeting someone from another country does not mean you are importing a bride or wife. I posted because the site is for Visa advice and I had some good comments for my step daughters Visa. To the Trolls, get a life or take some more medication. It may help with the racist nasty comments. To the keyboard warrior's make the same comments to my face and you will get a different reaction. Sorry admin but you have a few nutters on here distracting from people actually trying to help.
Additional Comment. I can see some comments have been removed but it is a shame on a site like this that you have some awful comments being made, referring to people as imported etc. Just from trying to get some advice for a friend who has had a visa affected by being abused I have been made to feel unwelcome. I thought the heavily medicated Trolls were mostly on Twitter. Be kind people. Meeting someone from another country does not mean you are importing a bride or wife. I posted because the site is for Visa advice and I had some good comments for my step daughters Visa. To the Trolls, get a life or take some more medication. It may help with the racist nasty comments. To the keyboard warrior's make the same comments to my face and you will get a different reaction. Sorry admin but you have a few nutters on here distracting from people actually trying to help.
Answer summary
A user is seeking advice for a Thai friend in the UK who was divorced after enduring domestic abuse and subsequently had her spouse visa application refused. Suggestions include contacting local support services, such as the Citizens Advice Bureau and specific Facebook groups focused on UK visa assistance. Several users recommend exploring the Destitute Domestic Violence concession and consulting a lawyer specialized in immigration issues. The conversation also touches on the negative comments encountered in the community, emphasizing the need for sensitivity and support for those in similar situations.
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Martin *********
She needs to appeal the decision
Bruce *****
I assume the spouse visa was refused based upon the probability of no longer being a spouse. Unfortunately having an abusive partner who will no longer be in her life doesn’t open up any visa options despite how many friends she has made. It’s time to come back to Thailand and look for a new farang
David *********
OP@Bruce ****
Why do people always assume Foreign women are LOOKING for Farangs. My wife wasn't LOOKING for a faring. My friend wasn't LOOKING for a faring. This site is rediculous
Anthony ********
I would advise first go to citizens advise center. If not good go to see a lawyer I think you have rights!
AliJames *****
I don't think many people here will be too knowledgeable regarding UK visas, I mean this is a group designed for expats in Thailand, not for Thai people in the UK. Try doing some Facebook searches for relevant groups who will be better positioned to help you such as:
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Wayne *********
I feel sorry for him he spent all that time and money on her send her home she's a no good lady we'll that's my thinking
David *********
OP@Wayne ********
She's a no good lady? You feel sorry for someone that abused their wife? You are a sick horrible piece of sht.
Shaun ********
There are lawyers who specialize in that field of expertise,but probably expensive
Nick ****************
@Shaun *******
if you do the groundwork yourself and just use lawyers to present your case to the tribunal and the inevitable appeal hearing you can reduce the costs considerably.Shaun ********
@Nick ***************
we had similar problems but in adoption,and being a bolshy Scot went to the top ,Phoned the Cabinet Office and asked for Tony,s number, and got through to his Private Secy,after the lower echelons found out I wasnt being pushed around, life went much easier ,
Va ***********
Hey I'm sorry to hear about the horrible comments, your friend should never had had to go through that and she deserves to have a life in the UK without the husband, her freedom should never come down to an abuser. Hope she finds all the help she needs and can stay in the UK. Sorry I can't help more, I just don't know much more about the subject :(
John ********
In Australia, the ONLY way a visa can be cancelled is by immigration...I partner cannot just get the spouse visa cancelled..there is a due process to ensure fairness..
Rob ******
Suggest she or you join a UK visa advice group . Or appropriate group operating from the UK .
Nick ****************
There are people here that can help your friend but we need more info. So pm me with the following details and I will try my best. How old is husband, how old is wife, where did they meet, when did they marry, you say she has made a life for herself in UK what does she do, who are her friends, where does she live (own or rented). This info could help get a definitive answer and possibly save her a lot of money.
Finally think that if you marry in Thailand and then divorce what happens to your marriage visa?
Finally think that if you marry in Thailand and then divorce what happens to your marriage visa?
David *********
OP@Nick ***************
Hi I have sent you a message but not staying on the group. It is full of Trolls and just horrible people.
Terary **********
My apologies for myself and the rest of the trolls. There is some good advice here and there are trolls. You can safely ignore the trolls.
Benjamin ******
@Terary *********
the problem is that people who are trolls may be taken seriously, causing them to make the wrong decision. I’ve seen it happened before on another group I mod.
Alex ********
She might be able to apply for the destitute domestic violence (DDV) concession. She'll need professional support and advice.
Alex ********
Gateway helpline in Southampton is Pippa - 023 8091 7917 for all domestic violence support services. As someone else has posted, CAB can also be helpful.
David *********
OP@Alex *******
thank you. Been feeling a bit of negativity on this site but a few have been really nice.
Dean **************
Orchid of Siam UK visas. Try these, they have helped some Thai friends of mine.
Dean **************
They have a Facebook page. Good luck.
David *********
OP@Dean *************
Great thank you, I will have a look.David *********
OP@Dean *************
I have heard of them I will give them a try. Thank you.Nick ****************
Depends how long she was married for how old husband is etc. I have a friend that makes decisions there. They assume from the start that she only married for the visa and look for arguments against. Abuse is a common claim but is usually brought about that the husband was upset she was seeing someone else. Good luck to her though she may be lucky.
Jonas *****************
Paul Weinhardt why would that be obvious?
David *********
OP@Nick ***************
Yes that is my worry about assuming it's not genuine but it's trying to prove that this case is actually genuine and was faithful.Ruth *******
Whoever just took his comment down...good idea. It told us more about you than about this woman you never met.
Benjamin ******
I highly recommend UK Visa and Immigration Information Facebook group. They are experts about UK visa laws.
David *********
OP@Benjamin *****
Thank you, I have just joined the groupMichael ********
Also presumable she reads and write Thai.
There are a few groups on facebook for Thai Citizens living in UK.
But as per other post she should go citizens advice they are professional, facebook comments uhmm
There are a few groups on facebook for Thai Citizens living in UK.
But as per other post she should go citizens advice they are professional, facebook comments uhmm
Michael ********
@Ruth ******
Yes not judging no one knows full story. Also seen many times in which person was used for another passport. Just point the person right direction.Ruth *******
@Michael *******
Immigration is not on the list of areas in which Citizens Advice states they advise. Nonetheless, it's not a bad place to start to ask for resources. Perhaps they will help.Michael ********
@Ruth ******
Yes but reporting the abuse is and that can also helpRuth *******
@Michael *******
This is one of the reasons why men import women from countries where they know the women will then have no recourse. I'm not saying that is what happened here. I don't know either of the parties involved, but it definitely does happen.Ruth *******
@Michael *******
Yeah, it makes sense that one should get the abuse part properly handled before further pursuing the immigration...if she has time. So sad.Michael ********
@Ruth ******
I had a friend who CAB helped get her life back on track after an abusive relationship. Been a long time since i have been in UK though sure there are other organisations that can help as well.Ruth *******
@Michael *******
It may not have been well-documented.Ruth *******
@Michael *******
Ahhh...good point. They might be able to help on the abuse side.Michael ********
She should go to the Citizens Advice
(Updated its FREE)
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Ruth *******
@Michael *******
Great advice! Also, @David ********
, I'm not trying to push you off, but this question might be better suited for a UK visa advice group. The people here will not be as familiar with the intricacies of the UK laws regarding bringing someone over. While certainly the nation of origin plays a factor in someone coming to the UK, the bigger issue here is UK law. I'm also pm'ing you.****************************************
David *********
OP@Ruth ******
starting to get the impression there are some very negative people on this group.
Liz ********
@Michael *******
Sorry haven’t come across him. Just a few others but only a couple who are usually rude to people ( not to me so far!) I do sometimes say to them eg No need to be rude or Be kind. Others do the same and the trolls rarely reply!Michael ********
@Liz *******
if you are on about billy brown read through his previous answers very little makes sense.Liz ********
@Michael *******
Other comments not necessarily this post. There seem to be a few trolls who post. I’m sure Admin take lots down but some escape. I’ll inform Admin if I see them when they come up if that’s a way forwards? ThanksMichael ********
@Liz *******
which comments are you refering to send admins message.Liz ********
@David ********
You’re right. They would be too cowardly to say negative nasty comments face to face. Sad people to get their kicks that way and upsetting sometimes for those receiving their comments especially if they’re a bit vulnerable. Think we should call them out! Good luck to your friend👍
Madz ******
Depending on the area, there could be some good local support in regards to options, for her. I'm in Wales and happy to signpost if necessary ✔️
David *********
OP@Madz *****
Hi she is in Southampton, England.Madz ******
@David ********
ill see what I can find 👍🏽David *********
OP@Madz *****
Thank youActivity
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