@Us ****
what issues do you imagine I have? And who said anything about being "accepted as one of their own" or not being farang? I am, indeed, a westerner. Even as a Thai citizen I'm still a westerner. That's fine. Thai citizenship confers many benefits.
I think it might be you who has issues... Your profile claims you live in california, which probably explains your poor attitude. And you spend your time on a Thai website and obviously have a lot of problems with the Thai people, culture, and country.
Perhaps your experience has been different than mine... perhaps it's related to your attitude. I have experienced nothing but love and welcome living here for many years. I have a Thai wife and child, a giant Thai family, and no one at all just "wants my money". My wife's family has plenty of money, they all own businesses.
I think your experience has been very different than mine.