@Tod ********
Since this is similar to what I just tried:
I applied online for the non immigrant O Visa based on family living in Thailand. (Husband has his non O based on retirement already). Via USA Wash DC Consulate. They said not possible unless husband has a work permit. They issued me a 60 day tourist visa instead. I've entered Thailand now.
I'm still trying to figure out how to get a non O trailing spouse Visa at a neighboring country? Or is this not possible?
Thanks