@John *********
this is my plan. What he said is clever, but is a cavalier mentality that I'm too old and stiff to adopt. I think needing to go to another country is absurd- but I've had 18 months to get used to the idea and I'm trying to view it in a positive light "hey a few days vacation where I can go see some new stuff and not feel like I'm being self indulgent".
My bitterness about the general shitty and nonsensical state is particularly near the surface after a statistically improbable string of shit finding my door. Got a phone call two nights ago at 3am from the Bangkok police offering to let my dipshit BiL (a commercial truck driver) out of getting arrested for drunk driving if I sent them money (555 no thanks, book him). Had an insurance company tell me "go to any body shop you want for a quote" and after learned that they only do that to see if you find one cheaper than the internal price quote. They will pay the number they made up, or less. But after I wasted two days running errands for them I learn it is just to see if I can save them money. WTF is going on in the world? Is there literally nobody just playing it straight and creating value???