Is Thailand really as heavenly as some expats claim, or are there hidden challenges?

Dec 5, 2023
a year ago
Mekidem **********
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Thailand was an absolute heaven for me! I have no other word to describe Thailand. Heaven on earth! The most honest people I have ever met. The most polite, the most genuine. I believe No human on earth with their right mind would hate that place. I wish I could find a job to stay there forever! 🥹🙏🏽
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Many expats share their overwhelmingly positive experiences of living in Thailand, describing it as a "heaven on earth" due to the friendly people, beautiful culture, and delicious food. However, there is a significant debate in the comments about the reality of living there versus visiting as a tourist. Some emphasize the differences, noting challenges such as cultural misunderstandings, dishonest practices, and economic exploitation prevalent in certain areas. Others counter these negative claims, reflecting on their long-term love for the country and its people. The conversation highlights a mix of admiration and caution, pointing out that experiences can greatly vary depending on location and interaction with locals.
Danly *******
lol, honest?
AxMdob *******
Honey loon finish soon 555
Xjwhudkwhry ********
You're absolutely delusional! I have no other word to describe you.
Mekidem **********
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@Xjwhudkwhry *******
sure! Who aren’t? You stupid fuck!
Xjwhudkwhry ********
@Mekidem *********
who aren't? Many people, lol. Plus it seems like you have a Tourette 🤣😂
Dave **********
My wife and I came 7 years ago. And we put down roots and we absolutely love it! Of course it's not for everyone. Like the millions and millions of people in bangkok, But you can have bangkok, We love Chiangmai ❤️ 😍 💖 too
Ken ******
more detail on air pollution, probably pattaya and phuket are better?

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Ken ******
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Ken ******
air pollution is a concern

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Brown ********
The most honest? Hell man if I introduced you to Da, Poohcat, Mi, Pla, Mie, Cee just to name a few you'd think there'd be more honesty in a cabinet meeting
Patrick ********
@Brown *******
he's on another planet
Brown ********
@Patrick *******
or just hasn't had enough time to discover the truth
Jae *******
@Brown *******
Or not in Pattaya the other shitholes
Mekidem **********
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@Jae ******
tf does that mean?
Jae *******
@Mekidem *********
It means your experience will vary considerably depending where you are. I'm in Korat and find the vast majority of Thais honest and genuine. Obviously if you're somewhere full of expats and tourists then it's going to to be a different matter.
Patrick ********
You got to be a newbie
Gary ******
Most corrupt people
Steve **********
@Gary *****
Read US news.

Read UK news, Read EU news......nam bplao please
Bruce *********
@Gary *****
there are times where I felt like it was pretty corrupt. I bought a vape from a shop. Smoked it in front of the shop and the cops try to shake me down for a bribe. Had to call the tourist police so they can let me go. This was before I found out it was illegal.
Debra *********
I also love 💕 Thailand
Alex *********
Thai philosoply: Give me farang all your money, after go back to your country!!!
Darryl ************
Honest ?
Colin *********
Mustafa Camel 🐪
Belinda *************
A pity that we have a few negative people on this group. If you did not like it.... cool. Move on. We and loads of other loved it.♡♥︎♡
Kev *********
@Belinda ************
Negative or realistic Belinda? Live amongst the people 10 years and then tell me the same.
Belinda *************
@Kev ********
don't burst the bubble then for us thats been going there for the past 10 years. We come for sea, sun and a land of smiles!
Kev *********
@Belinda ************
and you'll get those pleasanteries and more if you just come for vacations. I still love this country and many of it's people.
Artur *************
A man dies. Peter looks at him, goes "well... you're kinda blah. Not good enough for heaven, not bad enough for hell... So I'll let you pick - where do you want to go?"

Guy goes: "well, can I see both?"

"Sure thing."

An angel picks the man up, takes him to heaven. It's a bunch of people dressed in white playing flutes and singing. Kinda boring.

Then they go to hell. It's a party! One giant strip club, people doing lines off of bar counters, drinking, fucking everywhere.

Guy goes "well, heaven looks kinda boring, I think I'd rather go to hell."

Peter: "no worries, on you go."

Guy finds himself in a fying pan over a fire.

"What the fuck is this shit? Where's the party?"

Satan pokes his head out: "Don't confuse tourism with immigration, buddy."
Kev *********
@Artur ************
great message there.
Peter ******
Leo *********
Peter *********
I have lived in Thailand for around 6-7 years in total, and I still have a very good impression of Thai people. They appear genuinely kind-heartet to me. Much more than people from other cultures do. Many people have told me that I will realise that Thai people are not so nice when I first get to know them, but I have now known them for so many years, and still have a very good impression of their nature. Of course no-one is perfect, but Thai culture/mentality/psychology is the best you get on this planet. I really think so. Would love to retire there.
Steve **********
@Peter ********
been here 20+, would recommend, * but don't be naive.
Kev *********
@Peter ********
I am retired and have lived here approaching 10 years. I still love it BUT....there is a sense that Thais believe themselves to be a superior race. As an example. I was invited by a friend to a land deal, 40million baht. I sat silent throughout then after the deal was struck, the purchaser said in Thai " why are farangs so stupid"? I then spoke in Thai and asked him why he thought farangs were stupid? I continued and added there are clever people and stupid people in every country. His jaw dropped and he responded in English " you speak Thai" to which I replied I understand enough......
Peter *********
@Kev ********
I have the opposite impression. Regarding race, I always had the impression that the Thais consider their own race (Asian one) inferior to the Caucasian one.
Kev *********
@Peter ********
I guess it all depends on the individual Peter but I've met many who think they're superior.
Nicolas ********
@Mekidem *********
I remember feeling the same when I first came to visit many years ago . I have lived here for a long time and I still love Thailand , it is my home now and my wife is Thai. Visiting for vacation and living here are very different. If you want to feel the same way about Thailand forever then you can come and visit every year but don't live here. It's difficult sometimes, I am not as bitter and jaded as a lot of the others in this group, because I actually learned the language and try to be as Thai as possible. Don't try to change Thailand, let Thailand change you .

 and also thais are very racist to Black people So there is that 🤷🏻‍♂️
Steve **********
@Nicolas *******
well said !
Mekidem **********
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@Nicolas *******
Wow 😯! This is the most sensible comment I have come across so far!! Are they really racist towards blacks? I didn’t have much contact to the locals when I was there but I had some communication with the hotel receptions I was in and I didn’t actually see nor experience any racism there. SMH 🤦🏽‍♂️!! If they are really racist then I am glad I didn’t went too far with non of them! I just wonder what black people did to this world to deserve this! I know Thai’s bleach their skin as they are not white naturally, but I thought it was because of the Korean’s effect on them!! Anyway F* it! I don’t care 🤷‍♂️!! I won’t be there if any pressing situation happens anyway!
Steve **********
@Mekidem *********
it is what it is....I accept, others reject !
Jane *********
@Mekidem *********
I love your optimism. Keep it going. Some people think it’s a nativity, but I respectfully disagree. We form the world we live in. If you see it as dull and horrible, it will be. But if you learn through your mistakes but still see bright colours, your world always will be a welcoming place with lovely people.
Kev *********
@Mekidem *********
Thais don't actually bleach their skin. They use products called whitening creams which is nothing more than sun block in my opinion.
Nicolas ********
@Mekidem *********
lol did you not notice that you can't even buy deodorant in Thailand that doesn't have whitening cream in it? Did you not see that it is 40 degrees outside and people are driving motorbike in sweaters and pants and gloves on? Lol being dark or black is seen as poor and uneducated and not classy
Kev *********
Can i borrow 10,000 baht? When will you give it back? Every month 500 baht I promise. They surpass Nigerian scammers by a mile! Borrow? You must be joking! Before I was a soft touch.....now I say....have you got gold? Land? Car? Motorbike? No? Not have? Then f off.
Casa ********
There are Good and Bad people everywhere... cannot generalize. To keep your experience always good, avoid financial txns...because sometime money is the main cause of the problem in this world.
Olivier *********
Stay there few years and your thinking will change don t be so naive !!!
Mekidem **********
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@Olivier ********
some of you really taste the patience out of people!! How come what I said make me naive?
Kev *********
@Mekidem *********
because you haven't seen the whole picture.
Olivier *********
@Mekidem *********
I talk about experience there to live here 14 years ago it s not always the rainbow
Joe *******
Well said 👏
Gordon *********
Colin ******
It's your decision and everyone has given there honest accounts helpful or not including me and I can relate to and agree with a lot of the not good points also.They have a genuine grievance I have met and spoken to many people who have had similar issues. Its great to hear some comments of people loving every minute in Thailand but it's not like that everywhere so best of luck give it a go and hopefully it will remain wonderful for you.The 2 things you will need a lot of are patience and money and believe me your lose both
Jorick *********
Sound like you definitely dont know thailand dude
Dallas ******
Aim to be able to retire here when you turn 50 (retirement visa). Nice goal to have through your working life 👍
Phil *********
Not been pattaya then lol
Mekidem **********
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@Phil ********
I have been to Pattaya!! Lovely place!
Phil *********
@Mekidem *********
I imagine for you it is being from Ethiopia 🇪🇹
Nicolas ********
@Mekidem *********
worst place on earth 🤦🏻‍♂️
Jim *****************
This is stage one of the Thai-fever. There are at least six stages as you advance.
Kobe ******
Stefan ************
@Jim ****************
true bro, and the symptoms are getting worse with each stage. ,🤣🤣🤣
Aake **********
Nu *************
Bilbo ************
Well said. Couldn't agree more. 👍🏽
Matteo *******
What country are you from? 🤦🏼‍♂️🤦🏼‍♂️🤦🏼‍♂️
Lindsay ********
@Matteo ******
Australia
Chrisna **********
It is beautiful yes, agree, however, like any other country, it has issues.... if you stay away from trouble, it stays away from you. Thankfully.
Greg ******
In the honeymoon phase, reducing expectations will lessen the crash.
Frank *************
@Greg *****
The "crash" is partially realizing we are still ourselves...just in another place...
Mekidem **********
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@Greg *****
what expectations? I didn’t expect anything when I get there.
Lindsay ********
I have been coming and going to Thailand since 1973. Been around the provinces. What can I say it's a wonderful country there are pitfalls here. You just need to be careful. Like in any other country. ❤️ 🇹🇭
Terary **********
@Lindsay *******
Look at those pork chops 🙂
Lindsay ********
@Terary *********
that was the go
Jae *******
You and many others....
Frank **********
Once you eliminate the heat. humidity, insects and sometimes odors, it is great.
Mee ******
pure scaming BASTARDS
Graham *******
in comparison to Ethiopia, even the devil is honest.
Mekidem **********
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@Graham ******
Alright!👍🏾 👏🏾
Robert ******
You will never completely fit in here no matter how much money you throw at them they will always keep you at arms length
Wayne *****
@Robert *****
Fitting in is not the point. Enjoying your life is 🤔
Robert ******
@Wayne ****
I enjoy life well pal thank you
Wayne *****
@Robert *****
good on you pal.
Robert ******
@Wayne ****
love my life pal I don’t need to fit in with anyone here
Mekidem **********
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@Robert *****
why you try to fit in? What’s wrong with you? 🤦🏽‍♂️
Robert ******
@Mekidem *********
Not a lot but you’ll always be an outsider & made feel like one also
Richard *********
wow; keep drinking the kool aid
Steve *******
Way to manage expectations
Miles ******
And another one bites, another one bites, another one bites the dust 🥳
Paul ********
I have been to 85 countries and there is NO OTHER that comes close to Thailand.
Radius ******************
@Paul *******
55 for me and Thailand is number 1 ......oddly enough turkey was number 2 for me
Wayne *****
@Paul *******
💯 agree 👍
Mekidem **********
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@Paul *******
I feel like you’re like me 😂!!! You’re so positive! Keep up the positivity! Enjoy 👍🏾
Paul ********
@Mekidem *********
We actually outnumber the negs
Paul ********
Ignore all the negs, make it happen.
Paul ********
I've been here 40 years and the love affair is still going strong! You can do anything if you are determined.I did!
Wayne *****
It's paradise.
Kal *********
Got to love these comments ... entertaining to say the least ...
Mekidem **********
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Andy *********
When you've had all your family belongings, your own hard earned belongings, military uniform, medals, a house you paid to be built with money earned from 30yrs hard and dangerous work by devious ex-gf and by corrupt Courts and lawyers you tend look at most ( not all ) Thai people and the country in a different prospective not through rose tinted glasses.
Andy *********
Stephen Farrant

In her clothes shop at the local shopping mall.
Stephen *********
@Andy ********
I'm curious to know where you met your ex gf?
Jae *******
@Andy ********
Very sorry what happened to you, but you kinda put yourself in this position... I don't think Thailand is responsible or worse than anywhere else when it comes to this sort of thing.
Damo ***********
@Ron ******
Private Dancer should be 'mandatory' for any new farang entering Thailand. A great book!

ps. those new farang would be safer swimming in the ocean with great whites, than coming blindly into Thailand.
Andy *********
@Damo **********
Perhaps but having lived in Thailand for some considerable yrs at the time I expected to be treated with the same curtiousy that Thailand likes to portray to the outside world instead of revealing the true nature of the country and their people.
Damo ***********
@Andy ********
i understand mate everything you wrote.. only when the ‘chips’ are down do we start to realise the reality 🤷🏽‍♂️🙏🏼

But have fun before you come to that realisation though… in 30 years time it will not matter
Andy *********
@Damo **********
I still live out here with a decent Thai lady and have commitments to her and our adopted autistic 6yr old grandson. Due to the fact I lost everything in the aforementioned case returning to the UK is no longer a viable option financially
Paul *********
@Andy ********
yes and people get married anywhere in the world get divorced and lose at least half of there assets.
Andy *********
@Paul ********
Indeed they do, however but when your not married or lived with a woman for less than 5yrs it's a big difference.
Paul *********
Paul ********
@Andy ********
rose tinted is better than looking for bad shit
Andy *********
@Paul *******
Correct. Only a pessimist looks for that.
Mekidem **********
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@Andy ********
They don’t have morals, they are like the Chinese sometimes, All about money nothing else! They means business! I’m really sad that you had to lose yourself through all that! I wish you all the best!
Damo ***********
@Andy ********
it is not the Thai’s fault at all… you are 100% solely to blame on your decisions in life.. be it bad or good ones… Seems like your made some really bad ones though🤷🏽‍♂️🤷🏽‍♂️🤷🏽‍♂️
Andy *********
@Damo **********
Call me old fashioned but I expect people to treat me with the same honesty and decenty as I treat them. What I didn't expect was for the Thai individual, court, lawyers and police to be so corrupt and devious when dealing with a foreigners legal case.
Mekidem **********
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@Damo **********
Yes exactly!! 👍🏾
Ron *******
sound a bit off and\or maybe snide put down. Thailand is alright but seen thru rose colored glasses unwise
Mekidem **********
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@Ron ******
Ok sir! Thank you for the comment!!
Mark ********
Be aware of the Thai smile.
Adrian ********
Wished I had meet your people I had a child and 6 years of hell
Mekidem **********
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Adrian Thomas i didn’t have much contact with the locals there!!
Mekidem **********
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Adrian Thomas I feel sad for some of you that are going through hell! I wish you could fix it all! Wishing you a great luck
Bruce *********
@Adrian *******
What happened? Why did you stay with her? You should have left.
Jack ****************
This sounds like you spent time in a tourist centre marveling at how far your money goes. Pattaya and Phuket might as well be a different country.
Mekidem **********
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@Jack ***************
Only seen Bangkok and Pattaya! I came there through some weird circumstances and ended being in some trouble so I stayed there for 4 months until things sorted out! I didn’t have much contact with the locals there. Would love to visit Phuket some other time! If you’re having a bad experience then I feel sorry for you! I just stated what I felt about that place. I was stunned by the things that are legal there. The government means business there nothing else, so I get what you mean for a white guy that stays long there! They all love money and do anything to get that shit!
Jack ****************
@Mekidem *********
As a culture honesty is valued less than face and so people will say and do things that are dishonest pretty regularly and it drives me nuts. Their relationship to truth is... Compromised. I don't understand it because when they say they can do something that they can't maybe is feels better in that moment but then when it comes time to really do it and they can't it's more way worse.

I still choose to be here, but your observations will change with more exposure.
Robert ******
Yes I have to agree with you very honest they never try to hide the fact that you’ll pay nearly triple because your a foreigner they will rob you with a smile on their faces & regards to politeness you obviously haven’t lived here I don’t slag the place off but the novelty wears off believe me.

Most Thais are good towards you when you’re spending money with them not all but most.

Good luck you’ll make me right after you been here about 10 years. It can be a very dangerous place in more ways than one
William *****************
@Robert *****
then he’ll have 10 great years until he sees it from your perspective
Robert ******
@William ****************
yes & might be a expensive way to see
Mekidem **********
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@Robert *****
I been there only 4 months! I came there through some weird circumstances and stayed there for 4 months until the problems gets sorted out. Through my stay there I was able to see some parts of Bangkok and some parts of pattaya! I know most of the streets love money and they do anything to get it, so I didn’t have much contact with the locals. Some lied very much to the point I shut them down and walked away!! I had a very weird experience which I never thought I would experience in my life! I’m grateful I had to see all that! That’s why I love that place! I’m sorry that you had to go through all that bullshit, I wish you all the best!
Paul *********
Well said. It's so refreshing to hear others sharing their love of the country. It's hard to believe there are many who leave their own country to live here only to spend their energy criticising the place.

Love Thailand as I've spent most of my last 20 years there.
Kev *********
@Paul ********
I love here too BUT eyes wide open. Learn to say NO as shamelessly as the indigenous ask to borrow rich man's money. 1 lady asked can Borrow xxx baht. I asked....can i borrow your pussy.....she fd off.
Wayne *****
@Paul ********
Paradise on earth. Haters will always be haters wherever they live.
Jim ************
It's really hard to find a genuine honest lady here someone that's speaks good English, been scanned a few times.
Christian *********
@Jim ***********
maybe start looking at someone your age .
Mekidem **********
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@Jim ***********
Then stop meeting them!
Martin *********
@Jim ***********
serves you right for being a barcode then 😉
Peter *********
Yes, its a great place for many reasons!
Robert ******
@Peter ********
Cheap hoes is one ahh 😂
Yiba *******
The most honest?
Jae *******
@Yiba ******
I'm in Korat and my experience is Thais are generally honest, probably more so than westerners.
Alexander *************
Totally agree! Just came back from 3 weeks over there and I’m in a deep funk coz it’s so different from Europe and I miss it, the people, the food and climate terribly!!
Dianne *****
Thailand has lots to reccommend it, but it is far from heaven, lots of domestic violence, lots of sexual assaults that are either unreported or go nowhere when victims come forward, sexual abuse of girls by male teachers and police occurs far too often. Just months ago a male teacher was filmed kicking a young student repeatedly using full force muay thai style kicks that knocked the child flying each time, the child was aged about 9 years. Parents expressed concern and there was momentary outrage, but the school protected the teacher. There is a lot of grisly and violent crime here, usually as a result of jealousy or greed. There is terrible air quality in different regions of Thailand at different times of the year, resulting in many hospital admissions and premature deaths from lung cancer. Most of the fresh fruit and vegetables are laden with pesticides in levels beyond what is considered safe. Even rice is grown using chemicals tbat are banned in Western countries. There is little land that has not been contaminated by these pesticides. The roads across the country are very unsafe with 75 people dying every day in motor vehicle accidents, lots of animal cruelty and neglect, and whilst there are some truly lovely, genuine Thai people, there are a lot of false smiles and scams
Sinsiri ********
@Dianne ****
You have made a good point, I am a Thai woman who married for 20 years with English man, I live in London and I love it here. I used to love Thailand so much but now I feel uncomfortable when I went there, even I visit nearly every year. I just want to go there cause my parents still alive so my children need to recognise theirs mom's families side and spend most of the time with them in our rural village.But people there still look at you as the wealthy even my life style is simple. Old generation people was polite and generous, nowday beaware we you go.
Mikki ***********
@Sinsiri *******
every place has bad. look at the UK, censorship, forced vaccines, the gap between the rich and poor is huge. The average Brit cant afford to buy a home . Violent crime has risen etc...I guess its nimby....not in my backyard

in other words if you arent experiencing the negatives then yeah its great place
Jacob ********
@Dianne ****
You forgot to mention dual pricing , Thai Immigration nightmares, numerous foreign criminals hiding here, beaches covered in garbage, the Full Moon Moron Party, and so much more that will make you think twice before moving here. PS. Learn the language before ever considering getting involved with Thai women and many other reasons before moving here.
Mikki ***********
@Dianne ****
I thought you were talking about the USA at first....at least Thailand doesn't have Satanist lol 😆😜
Oleg **********
@Mikki **********
Isn't technically every other religion satanism to christians?
Mikki ***********
@Oleg *********
from my understanding other religions to the church are pagan.

Satanism is religion that specifically worships Lucifer the morning star

My comment was cheeky because in California Satanism is associated with Hollywood, the music industry and many elite cults.

What I didn't mention is that transhumanism is the new religion in Silicon Valley by a small powerful community. There is even a actual brick and mortor A.I church were you can worship.....crazy world we live in.
Myles *******
@Dianne ****
We can make a list just as long or longer for the negatives of any country. If someone feels a place is to their liking we don’t have to downplay the positive aspects they’ve felt. People can be happy if they choose. Where there is good there is bad with all things in life.
Da *****
@Myles ******
its called providing counter arguments. try to relax a little, people are allowed to have discourse.
Ken ******
@Myles ******
i guess she is just being honest. One can better cope knowing the pros and cons in advance. Actually most info can be obtained by online google search, eg air quality, road safety, drainage and big flood area

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Tulip ********
Naive
Mekidem **********
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@Tulip *******
that’s a bad judgment sir!!
Imani ********
@Mekidem *********
people are too literal .. smh
Alex *********
they are liars and evil
Mekidem **********
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@Alex ********
I’m sorry you had a bad experience!!
Alex *********
I have a Thai wife
Brian **********
Alex *********
@Brian *********
Market, salad, I was alone, 50 baht, with wife, 20 baht. Fucking people.
Radius ******************
@Alex ********
r u sure ur not talking about Mexico?
Julie *******
@Alex ********
you sound so bitter and full of hate. Did you need me to send you $1.00 USD so you can buy a salad? Lmao.
Jane *********
@Julie ******
I think he is just joking
Alex *********
@Julie ******
I was many times in this Fucking country, I know what I am talking about. Market, shop, taxi, all fucking thieves. Ohhh, and they are lazy, lazy, but want money!!!
Jesse *****
@Alex ********
I think I know the solution to your problem of being a guest in the kingdom. As
@David **********
has informed me to do in the past, if you don't like it...... GO HOME!
Alex *********
@Jesse ****
I am home, never again Scamland!
Mikki ***********
@Alex ********
im late to this party ..but you sound so angry. Let it go. No one and no place is more important than your peace.

Alex we have the power to create our own reality . If someone with negative energy offends you or cheats you remove them from your circle , shop or eat somewhere else.

I have been to 38 countries and I have learned that there is good, bad and ugly everywhere.. Only allow people in your life with positive energy and vibrations

Its not easy but anger and negativity affects us on a cellular level and is not worth damage it can do to us.

Sending you light and love brother.

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Radius ******************
@Julie ******
count me in for 50 cents of it
Mekidem **********
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@Alex ********
are you having a bad time over there? I know they love money and they do anything for money but marrying one is not on my mind.
Alex *********
@Mekidem *********
They love only money!!!
Jae *******
@Alex ********
Sounds like you've not been outside Pattaya...
Alex *********
@Jae ******
Buriram, Krasang., Kho Chang, etc
Julie *******
@Alex ********
🤣🤣🤣 that sometimes happens when you go to another country and try to marry a little girl you think will be a servant to you.
Alex *********
@Julie ******
Idiot. I have not problem with my wife. I dont like the people around her! Fucking people!
Mikki ***********
@Mekidem *********
most people will do anything for me just look at the USA where I was born and raised bro.
Linnea **********
I love Thailand but let me just warn you that there is not always honesty and genuine affection behind the smiles there. You can get used by people you think are your friends. Enjoy the country but be careful in situations where recourses are involved (money, business, belongings, property etc) that’s where things can quickly go sour in Thailand unfortunately and have for a lot of foreigners.
Gary ******
Mikki ***********
@Linnea *********
i agree with you but let me add, I have a background in human behavior and we all are not different at our core Culture, personal growth, childhood, and so many other things make us who we are

No place is nirvana, but if you have street and real world smarts you can be a pretty good judge of people.

My ask to everyone is never idolize anything or anyone. Enjoy the journey and remember nothing is permanent.

And this goes also for Thailand. ❤️
Mikki ***********
I agree but let me add this perspective.

No place is perfect but a bad day in Thailand, is better than my best day back in California. Home is where the heart is ❤️
Mikki ***********
You must be a 1% ! that's great!

I always say home Is where the heart is. ❤️
Bruce *********
@Mikki **********
My quality of life is much higher in Los Angeles.
Rosemalee *******
@Mikki **********
I love both Thailand and California good or bad.❤️❤️
Mikki ***********
@Rosemalee ******
I was brought up in California...unless if your rich it's a become bad. The crime , homelessness, drug addiction, inflation is out of control

It still has beautiful mountains and national parks but if your I

in the city , your just surviving even if you make over 130k per year.😔
Rosemalee *******
@Mikki **********
We are retired and live in small town along the coast north of LA and spend winter in Bkk and Hua Hin not so stressful 😁
Mikki ***********
@Rosemalee ******
that's smart to be out of the city centers😍
Albert *******
Comparing Thailand to many western European countries where people are sometimes absolutely nasty for no reason , yeah I’d have to agree with you . It’s a south east Asia thing …. But still , watch your money … 🤣🤣🤣
Steve **********
@Albert ******
your money is safe, it's how you spend it.

Moderation in all things
Brian **********
Rollo ************************
Tourist!! The grass is greener effect for sure. Wait until you try and find a job here as a Black man or a non-native speaker. I sure wish I was being served some of the drugs you were taking or the juice you were drinking— 🤣🤣🤣😂🙃🙃
Mekidem **********
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@Rollo ***********************
would really appreciate it if could tell me your experience
Mekidem **********
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@Rollo ***********************
I didn’t look for a job actually, didn’t have much contact with the locals there. When I saw sneaky shit or a lie I disappear. I liked the older people.
Olivier *********
@Mekidem *********
Stay there few years and your thinking will change don t be so naive !!! It s not the heaven there are good things and bad things holidays and live there not same
Colin ******
5555 honestly
David ***********
Just to check, you like Thailand ?
Michael ***********
I cannot describe it any better I went there for a month ended up staying two months, ate some amazing food and really enjoyed the street food visited a lot of the markets they have all over Phuket and Laguna , made some incredible Thai friends .
Brandon ******
Been exactly my experience after 6 trips.
Roy *********
I agree buddy, I came here because my friend invited me 9 year's ago.

I was skeptical but now I'm still here 😉
Steve *******
@Roy ********
good for you - i couldn't take Pattaya full time. Probably would be fine with Hui Hin or Chang Mai or south...
David ******
I could not agree more. I came on a 2 week holiday 27 years ago and never left!! Amazing people, country and culture.
Brown ********
@David *****
wow you're lucky. Surely you've met some dodgy people though in 27 years. It's as believable you haven't as a guy saying he's never had a fight with he's Thai wife of 27 years
David ******
@Brown *******
met many unscrupulous individuals but mainly foreigners and never got involved with them.

Kept myself to myself and funny how the harder you work the luckier you become. Built a strong business over 24 years, side by side with my wife. Sure there are times of different opinions between us but working through those times is what makes you stronger.

I still love my life and stand by my love of Thailand and it’s people along with all the fantastic foreigners I have been lucky to befriend over those years.
Mekidem **********
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@David *****
you’re very optimistic and strong!
David ******
@Mekidem *********
positivety is key!
Brown ********
@David *****
nice work mate.
Rusty ********
@David *****
I envy you. I have visited several times and each time I want to stay. I don’t know how you just left everything behind and found a place there. I have been too scared to pull the trigger. But I know reward comes with a willingness to take risk.
Steve **********
@Rusty *******
well worth the shot. Once here, even the memories of 'there' are gone.

Not not for All.
David ******
@Rusty *******
Guess I was young and full of optimism or perhaps naivety depending on your perception. Best move I ever made. Hard early years but this is a land of opportunity if you are willing to give it time and work hard.
Stephenie **********
Have you been drinking alcohol sir?
Paul ********
@Stephenie *********
No he sees the beauty of the people
Steve **********
@Paul *******
' The people ' are not. Pattaya or Nana nor Loy Kroh
Steve *******
@Stephenie *********
no he went for a walk down Soi 6.....now thinks he is Tom Cruise (like many of us)
Steve **********
Na, no book can explain, even Thai Fever. or others.

As for Soi 6...have to experience 1st hand .
Steve **********
Bruce *********
@Steve ******
for some guys just getting those cat calls from every girl when you walk down the street is a confidence booster. That is until they realize they're doing the same thing to the guy right behind them.
Steve *******
@Bruce ********
yep.......100% and even then that bounces off some of the really thick ones... ;-)
Steve *******
@Bruce ********
exactly...but if you are early enough, no one is behind you and you get attention that you have never had in your life. Could get to a newbe's head if he was starved. I had a buddy with me the 1st time who had been there 2 x b4....so I knew what to expect. But i can see how it would make you feel better. everyone should read "A fool in Paradise" before heading out to SE Asia.
Mekidem **********
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@Steve ******
Tom cruise 😂😂
Ian **********
Agreed, everything is just amazing
Steve ********
Roland Winter Ah ok. I didn't think so. 🤣
Steve ********
@Ian *********
Everything amazing? The rubbish and garbage piled up in places, the plastic bottles and cartons dumped in waterways, the stench from the canals, the electric cabling on display everywhere, the old dirty buses, the cars not giving way to pedestrians etc etc? Get real please. Thailand is a lovely country, but to say everything is amazing is delusional
Ian **********
@Steve *******
your looking at the menial things, yes it needs typing up but to what the Western world full of expense and corruption, I will take the opposite thanks but each to their own
Steve ********
@Ian *********
It's just your use of "amazing" as though it's something really exceptional, which it's not. I could describe Laos as "amazing", I could describe New Zealand as "amazing" if I focused on the positives and conveniently ignored the negatives, as you've done. And the western world full of corruption? Yeah, let's be thankful corruption doesn't exist in Thailand
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