@Diana ***
, then again, you COULD come here on a tourist visa, look for work and if that didn't pan out in the 60 days you get stamped in for and the 30 days you can extend it for you could apply for an in country Non-O visa based on being married to a foreigner who legally works here
It would be a LOT harder to get that in country Non-O based on marriage to a foreigner working here than it would be to get it from the thai consulate before you come though.