For that matter, your recent quoted post is ungrammatical gibberish: "S(he) who has lost the WHY, WHAT to live for & without its comprehension, may barely be able to bear the HOW of existence..."
"Without its comprehension" refers to nothing in that sentence.
No parents want their children to learn gibberish.
It has nothing to do with the current president. This has been standard for decades. Do your research, try again. It sounds like you were really focused on the financial side, when really they're more concerned with 1) the permanence of the relationship, and 2) a plan to get in, do something specific, and GTFO. Then, if she acts nervous or confused in any way (which is normal), she'll get denied anyway. Par for the course!