Landlord had a lawyer send a scary letter. It's BS, she's bluffing. Get your own lawyer to send a threatening letter right back. I'd be inclined to threaten both her and her lawyer too, but not if advised otherwise by my own guy. Let your lawyer do the wording, that's his job.
I would have already kissed the deposit goodbye anyway. I amortize 100% over the life of the lease and act surprised when I get
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back. Fun money! Thai rentals just don't work like we'd expect in the west. They just don't. Getting 100% back is a naive westerner concept here. In your situation I'd expect zero back for sure, but I damned sure wouldn't be paying anything above and beyond.
Also in your situation, I'd expect to be moving. This is a pissing contest that, now that it's started, isn't going to have a [ahem...] happy ending.