@Robert ******
that's easy to say.
But with kids /business/hubby from a different continent /pets etc.
And my son has a diff passport to me!!
There is no 'home' for me.
This is my home. Our home.
I can't split up our family and livleyhood and run back to the UK where I have no one and nothing at all... And be forced to be separated from our families in the process.