@Walter ******
you aren't gonna get a 90 day non-O based on being a trailing spouse of someone who gets a non-O based on retirement issued inside the country from ANY imigration office.
It's not a reason to issue a Non-O visa.
Did you already GO to C/W immigration office and get the hand out listing the requirements for you to apply for the in country 90 day Non-O visa in section C-1?