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Why does my wife's partner visa application require information about my daughter and my ex?

Sep 18, 2025
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Ste *******
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Hi, I am applying for my wife's 2nd 2.5 year partner visa and they are asking if I have children with another person. I have one daughter from a previous relationship and have had standard access since she was born. Nothing changed when me and my now wife got married 2.5 years ago. Visa application Gov.uk is asking loads of questions about my daughter and then asking for evidence of my wife's contact with my daughter. Also a written signed letter from my ex saying its ok, also utility bills from where my daughter lives with my ex!!! Never seen this before! What the hell! Who asks their Ex to help them with their new wife's visa! There are no issues at all with my daughter visiting us. But I still dont really want my ex in our private business (Visa application) Can anyone advise on this bit. Can I ignore the request for signed letters and utility bills etc?
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TLDR : Answer Summary
The post discusses a concern regarding the application process for a partner visa, specifically the requirement for evidence related to the applicant's child from a previous relationship. The author expresses confusion and frustration over requests for a letter from his ex-partner, contact details, and utility bills related to the child, questioning the necessity of such information while feeling uncomfortable involving his ex in the process.
Shane *******
Should of brought her in on a boat
Troy *********
Ask them if their King wears bras. Oh that's right.. he does
Donald **********
Ignore the request and expect refusal. Surely you can speak to someone to voice your concerns, with a view to amending the requirements, but at the end of the day, if you want to risk refusal and loss of the application fee, ignore the request at your peril. Contact your ex first to see if there will be any objections on her part to supplying the information requested. Pride comes before a fall.
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