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What is it like to retire in Thailand, and is it safe for single women?

Jun 30, 2025
14 days ago
Suzana *******
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Hi all. I have been following posts of many of you moving to Thailand . Can I ask what it’s like to retire in Thailand ? What do you do to keep busy ? Also is it not a dangerous place for a single women ? It seems many of the comments suggest not , which has perked my interest in perhaps moving over, although I am a bit weary ?
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The post discusses the experiences and perceptions of various individuals regarding retirement in Thailand, particularly focusing on the safety for single women. Many responders stress that Thailand is a safe country, often safer than many western nations, provided that one remains cautious and avoids risky situations. They share their personal routines, activities, and highlights of living in different regions like Bangkok and Hua Hin. Suggestions for social interactions include joining local expat groups like Internations and getting involved in community activities. Some discuss financial considerations and recommend learning the Thai language to enhance the experience. Overall, Thailand is portrayed as a vibrant, welcoming place for retirees.
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Sammy *****
As a "single women", you'd better stay home... 😄
Nick **********
The 1st thing you need to learn in Thailand, is that being "busy" is the last thing you need. One needs to learn the "here and now", the present moment is all we have and need. 15 years here, retired, and never busy
Greg *********
Only dangerous things are motorbikes and soi dogs.people are fantastic.
Mike *******
The biggest problem for me is my lack of thai language. Here in the south, hat yai, English language is not so common
Nate ***********
Well it's a complicated situation it's safe here but it's not safe to enter due to the fact that authorities here in Thailand don't abide by the embassy's website stating that you're allowed two entries by border per calendar year. So essentially this is a country that won't follow its own rules and makes makes them up as they go except for the main common laws that you would expect to a certain extent.
Teddee ********
My mom is retiring with us in Samui. We feel very safe, much safer than we felt in the States. Even when we were in Bangkok, it felt like a very safe city, even walking alone. Crime statistics are much better here than they were where we're from in Alabama.
Jamie **********
@Teddee *******
yes and they don't have school shootings
Jamie **********
If you're looking to retire there, maybe you should go over for a visit first
Eric ***************
61 retired here in Thailand, cycling eating healthy, gardening travelling
Dora *******
Been going to Thailand solo female for last 25 years. Never felt unsafe and have been all over
Ji *************
I live in the north (Phrae) and usually my time is taken up by building projects and work back in the UK so not technically retired yet.

Life is quiet up here, but there’s always some sort of social gathering or event to attend,

However in my spare time I love to visit the national parks, walking trails, waterfalls etc. The north is full of them. I’m not into beaches and much prefer the call of the forests and jungles :)
Martin *******
Safe if you dont drive
Jim *******
I can tell you why you are, as a single woman, as safe as in a kinder garden, in Thai. But the Mods would not let my answer go through. There is a fundamental reason why you will be safe in Thai, as a single woman.
Mary ********
@Jim ******
If you think, as you imply, that the Thai men don't find farang women attractive as much as Thai ladies find farangs attactive you'd be wrong - the difference is Thai's are respectful and the farangs who would be the ones we would be unsafe from (not all farangs - just some) are too busy chasing transactional relationships to notice us. Most men (or women) don't think that way though - safety isn't all about that and it's a shame thats where your mind took you.
Priya **********
Hi Suzanna! Very safe here and a good thing to start with is to go to a Thai school to learn the language. I went to RTL in Bangkok. Its 3 hours Mon-Fri. Bit intense but you learn a lot.

So much to see and do in Bangkok... too much to fill a lifetime.
John *********
@Priya *********
ive not heard of RTL Priya…

Whereabouts is the school?
Priya **********
@John ********
in Ploenchit Plaza. Same building as Siam

Pharmacy.

Rak Thai language School.

888/104 Mahatun Plaza 10 floor. Ploenchit rd, Lumpini, Pathumwan. ph:02-
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Mahatun Plaza 10 floor. Ploenchit rd, Lumpini, Pathumwan. ph:02-2553036.

Small school, small classes up to 10 students, I think. You can go there or do online, do groups which is cheapest or privates.
John *********
@Priya *********
thanks!! I have been learning to read for quite a while now but need to becin Thailand to accelerate things..
Priya **********
@John ********
they do reading and conversation in different classes
Ellen *************
Have you looked into the costs or the government website that gives instruction? It’s not super easy but not super hard - you just need to have the money to sink into the bank here and then the proof of monthly income and source.

There’s an issue regarding health care- plenty of people in here have experiences but the govt website is a must, there’s no skirting what’s required so best to look there and determine you have the funds, etc to qualify?
Siriwan ****
I'm 100% Thai but I have encountered many retired single women in the Huahin area, everyone seemed happy and enjoyed life and I rarely heard any bad things or any complain from them.
Mary ********
I think it depends on where you settle and what your interests are. My husband and I moved just north of the bay in Mueang Prachuap Khiri Khan - we live in a quiet little fishing village and feel perfectly safe here (I have been going for morning walks regularly here before 6 am on my own and never had issues - I sometimes go home from the pub on my own because hubby is having a good time and I am tired - again no problem. ) I garden, go for massages, putter in the kitchen when I want farang food and do a host of things to stay busy. Never bored. There is a bit of an expat community here, we sometimes go to things but often are too busy enjoying life to. It's like anywhere - it is what you make it.
John *********
@Mary *******
sounds like the place where i want to retire Mary!!

Are there Apartments to rent there?
Mary ********
@John ********
there isn't any agents here to show you them but if you drive around there are places available. We live in a resort that has three small cottages and some single rooms - the cottages are basic but we are across the street from the beach and we have really turned ours into a home. The owners here are lovely and very helpful - what started out as temporary accomodation is now our permenant home lol
John *********
@Mary *******
that sounds great Mary!! My wife is Thai and we love nothing more that catching our own fish and cooking it within 5 minutes next to the sea. Easy life!!
Mary ********
@John ********
definitely worth checking out Mong Lai then which is on the north side of the bay in PKK.
Andy *******
@Mary *******
I live 15km south of PKK in Wathon area very quiet we own our own house and been there 13 years ,I have been doing 6 months on off work for last few years ,prior to moving here that i was in BKK for 12 years so 25 years in thailand all in now retired full time it's quiet very quiet As Much as i like area i feel for me it will be beneficial to split 6 months winter here with family and summer in UK possible doing contract work for sanity......maybe not ready for retirement yet and miss real beer too much ..but each to their own
John *********
@Andy ******
yes im in that similar dilemma Andy… im fully remote (since 2020) and work on a contract basis. My umbrella company wont accept me working in Thailand. The company i am contracted to now said they will offer me a permanent position but 24 hours per week.

So may opt for a DTV rather than retirement visa.
Andy *******
@John ********
If I work it's overseas in UK so the retirement visa which i ve had for 10 years since I closed my Bangkok company suits me fine just get a reentry permit and come and go as you please As original poster says PKK is a fine place but is very quiet April till November
Mary ********
@Andy ******
We are in Mong Lai lol don't really miss anything to be honest since I can cook farang food when I want (but thats rare because the food here is delish) and though I was a wine drinker - vodka and orange when I want alcohol which is rare is a good replacement. I thought I would have issues slowing down for retirement as a workaholic, turns out there is always something to do here. Morning walks on the beach & healthy eating - over 2 and a bit years - 63 kilos gone - weight I tried to lose while working but with 60 hour weeks didn't have time. We are never bored lol and yes - we do occasionally travel outside Thailand for visits with family.
Andy *******
@Mary *******
oh I know Mong Lai although must admit I rarely go north of the town yes content here in the jungle although I can go weeks without seeing a farang but house land 5 dogs does keep us busy I am trying to loose last few years expat food and beer weight so walking on beach and around aquarium daily doing 15k ish in steps im off to UK early next year so I know i need to get work done as indian food, fish chips and beer there will take it's toll .. all the best
John *********
@Mary *******
will check!!

Applying for Type O visa end of September and hope to be in Thailand end of November.
Mary ********
@John ********
My advice for anyone looking to retire here is to float around for a couple months in short stay accommodation and travel to different areas until you find the place that suits you completely. We stayed in Hua Hin a few months and did this (based ourselves at Seamira House on the rail line off Soi 94 - lovely hotel with cheaper longstay rooms if you visit in person rather than book through agoda and the beds there are super comfortable) Once we drove into PKK though we knew this was the place. We have been here now a bit over 2 years and never looked back, but we like a quiet lifestyle so it really does suit us. There are no girly bars here (though I have heard there may be one somewhere - it's not in your face - lovely rasta bar on the beach just around the corner from us though. When we need to shop for things that aren't in town (like farang food supplies) we drive the hour to Hua Hin for a night or two 🙂
John *********
@Mary *******
wow just checked Mong Lai… that certainly looks a place that suits us.
Shane ********
Try before you buy 👍 Many different lifestyles, locations & budgets to choose from. Check out some YouTube vids as well. I love a bit of Retired Working 4 You, Keis One & Paddy Doyle. In general, Thailand is very safe
Tony *********
Every woman has to be careful no matter where they are...but personally I think you are safer in Thailand than so many western countries. A lot of far east countries are safer it's not just Thailand...but as I said never assume anything 🙏🏼
Trav **********
Paradise
Jojo ******
Tell me for those going thru menopause what's it like with the hot flashes and the heat?
Mary ********
@Jojo *****
i am post menapausal but do occasionally still get a hot flush - the humidity here can play havos as well but I can say once you get through the first year (I spent a lot of time in air con the first year and only went out early mornings or evenings) and learn to dress appropriately for the climate it gets a lot easier. I did a big weight loss as the extra weight was worse than the hot flushes and then went in for a mommy makeover (arms, breast reduction and tummy tuck) and now, in the wet season I feel cold and need a sweater - in other words there are ways of dealing with it. Thin clothing, air con and keeping healthy are the keys.
Jo *********
@Jojo *****
when I was there during menopause my friend asked the same question and realized I didn't notice it as much as I expected to be hot anyway 🤣🙈
Natalya *******
@Jojo *****
It was much easier to go through hot flashes phase in the tropics then in Europe , I barely noticed them because the temperature outside was not much different
Gerg **********
Definitely a safe country for anybody to move to, but it’s like everywhere else, once you’re living here on a budget, and aren’t a tourist, they’ll be a lot of days just sitting home, so you’ll have to figure out how not to be bored.
Bill *********
@Gerg *********
Bored? Sorry, I'm not familiar with the term. I have to force myself to stay home and take care of my chores! So many restaurants to try out, night clubs to evaluate, new areas of the city to explore... On any given night I have a hard time deciding which of the 25 skybars in the city to visit. If someone is bored in Bangkok then they're doing something wrong.
Gerg **********
@Bill ********
You’re lucky you have the money to do all that. Most don’t.
Bill *********
@Gerg *********
I do consider myself lucky and appreciate that I have the opportunity. But also preparation is important. I was keen on Thailand over 20 years ago. I only recently made the move once I had everything aligned financially, logistically, and my remote work side hustle. I wouldn't be here, nor should anyone else, if one must count every bhat all the time.
Gustavo *********
@Bill ********
Not everyone have a budget to be in Restaurants or night clubs everyday 🤣 ,, but I'm sure is lots of healthy Dudes out there
Sandy *******
Not dangerous for anyone...unless you rent a motorbike with absolutely no experience riding one.
Lee-Ann *******
Definitely not dangerous, I feel so safe here, I go for walks by myself at night to go get my massages, my husband doesn't worry about me here when I'm on my own as he works FIFO in Western Australia, back home in Australia I never felt safe, always hasseled by bogan's and locals for money etc, western people are agro and just plain nasty, whereas the Thais are respectful beautiful friendly people, we do lots of walking, hubby is thinking about joining lawn bowls, we have a puppy to keep us occupied and we live in a villa so have a garden etc, we are actually leading a healthier life here because we feel safe going for walks, always avoided it back home which made us lazy
Pe ****
@Lee-Ann ******
Could you define and describe a “bogan”? Is it a type of toboggan?
Pe ****
@Lee-Ann ******
Thanks. I was wondering how a toboggan would hassle you for money. 🛷 Plus there’s not that much snow that falls across most of Australia.

Further research reveals Aussie synonyms for bogan: ocker, yobbo, and feral.
Lee-Ann *******
@Pe ***
Australia is well known for using abbreviations for almost everything, sometimes we forget the rest of the world speak normal, lol
Lee-Ann *******
@Pe ***
riff raff, lay abouts, people who generally have no respect for others or property etc, it's a term commonly used where we lived
Mike *******
Just don’t ride a motorcycle. The roads are incredibly dangerous. Some of the worst in the world.
Denise **********
@Mike ******
I retired here and I ride a scooter. Yes it's challenging but 3 years, no accidents. I rode motorbikes back home though so have plenty of experience
Mike *******
@Denise *********
Most of survival on the roads here is just luck. I rode motorcycles in the UK and obtained a gold award on a police run safe driving course. I had an accident here after one year on the roads due to a nutter turning across me. It was unavoidable. I switched to cars. Good luck.
Denise **********
@Mike ******
I agree totally with what you say. Sorry to hear of your accident. Most of my driving is city based so not so much high speed.
Stuart ***********
It might be easier if you explained the type of things you want to do in your retirement. Everyone is different and will have different hobbies and interests and the people that reply to you are likely to be different to you. Me personally, I love the outdoors and walking on the beach, I also have a house and I am renovating it. I love the people, culture, climate and beaches. I used to play sports, but injuries restrict that now. Thailand is very safe as others have said.
Yo ****
Been in Thailand for 20years and it's depends on the area and where you go.

For single women if you stay in big city like Bangkok or Pattaya when I used to stay is safe. And stay in Condominium and not in the house alone.
Belinda ******
Try Hua Hin, it’s only 4 hours from Bangkok, got a large ex Pat community, so friendly, lots to do, has its own micro climate, cheap good accommodation, beautiful beach, been living here since September 2024, love it and I feel very safe living there.
Roxana ******
Michelle *****************
@Belinda *****
hello luv do you mind me asking how much rent is monthly where you are and what kind of accommodation please 🙏
Belinda ******
@Michelle ****************
a studio condo, it’s beautiful has a huge swimming pool and gym, great location, beach across the road
Belinda ******
@Michelle ****************
we pay
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baht per month, electric is 1200 baht and water 350 for 3 months
Roxana ******
@Michelle ****************
Hua Hin - house 10.000 Thb (265 Euro), small courtyard, 2 bedrooms, 2 bathrooms, one upper floor with a balcony, as well. 7 min walk to the beach. 100 square meters.
Dianne **********
@Michelle ****************
I'd love to know as well. Maybe rental agent contacts? Thanks
Donald ******
Very safe.
Neil *********
Hi suzanna its a great place to retire. Many of clients are retired here. You will find plenty of things to get involved with as an expat. Join Internations and then you can go to a variety of things and build your social circle.

As for it being safe you'll have no problem at all. Ok I've only lived in pattaya and 4 years now in Bangkok but Bangkok is honestly such a safe city to walk around. Of course you wouldn't go wandering around the shanti set ups but you'll not be anywhere near them and to be honest and you can only speak as you find but the thais are such genuine and nice you'll love it.
Priya **********
@Neil ********
Hi Neil! What is Internations? Where do I find it? I moved to Bangkok 5 months ago and would like a bit more social interactions.
Neil *********
@Priya *********
hi priya download the app. Its basically a lot of different type of events from coffee get together to bigger ones etc. There's actually a coffee one this Saturday afternoon. Downloaded the app. If you have any issues pop me a dm I'll do what I can to help
Priya **********
@Neil ********
Wonderful thank you!
Priya **********
I joined and signed up but could not find the address and time for Saturday.
Neil *********
@Priya *********
no problem
Dana ******
Been retired in Thailand for last 15 months. It's a very safe country, very cool people and many opportunities for a variety of adventure and activity.

Before coming to Thailand I read so many PollyAnna posts about how perfect it is. Thailand is not perfect, but it is probably better than where you are. Keep an open mind, be flexible, learn Thai and learn the culture.

It's different, very different. Don't judge, quietly observe and appreciate the differences.

Also, it's not as cheap as you think. Day to day can be far less expensive than where you are, but the environment encourages spending in many different ways (like cheap travel) you can lose financial focus pretty easy.
Tom ********
It's one of the safest Countries on the planet just don't get involved in things you wouldn't get involved with in your own Country and don't walk around flashing loads of 'Bling' there's lots of social gatherings to meet people too.
Madz ******
I've lived, travelled and regularly go on holiday solo to Thailand. It is very safe, or as safe as anywhere if you're sensible and careful. People are friendly, accommodating to foreigners (when in tourist location especially) and if you try to learn Thai you will make so many friends. * I'm Not retired fyi *
Andrew *********
Best take a holiday there first but in my opinion much safer than most western countries
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