@Adrian *******
Immigration does not issue any more "trailing spouse" Extensions, same as many Thai embassies have discontinued to issue "trailing spouse" or "dependent" Non-O visa. You both need each 800.000 in your bank accounts, each account must be in your sole name. So what you need is 1.6 million Baht, at least in the first year. After one of you has collected 12 months of transfers (must be coded as coming from abroad in the bankbook), you can switch to the income method and take out the 800.000 THB from at least one account