1. Assuming, what
@Ellie ******
said, there is no writing on your Non-O visa, the best extension of stay to get depends on your unique needs. What your needs are, I don't know.
2. Each office has their own paperwork requirements. ASK your local immigration office what they need.
3. This is not a group to discuss the best ways to transfer money from your home country to Thailand. Talk to your bank, OR find a Facebook group to help you.