@Peter ***************
interesting, which embassy is this? Requiring exit tickets for non-O definitely is something new, it has not been required so far.
Now the requirement was already pointless for tourist visas but at least it had a little bit of merit, but requiring it for long stay visas can borders insanity.
But if the embassy requires it, then work around it. I would avoid losing hard worked for money on something so pointless, so I would book the refundable flight and then cancel again.
Also, which embassy is this? Their cost seems a little higher than usual.