I re-read your post, and this stood out to me:
"I flew into Bkk on a connecting flight to Cambodia, but I got the visa on arrival I didnt use."
I can't imagine any way a person can get a "visa on arrival" (OR a visa exempt) without stamping out of Thailand. I imagine if you somehow stamp into Thailand, then turn around and return to Cambodia, etc. without stamping out, you would have entered on overstay after 15 or 30 days. It sounds like that didn't happen. I would check your passport and confirm there is a triangle departure stamp.
IF you are from a visa exempt country, AND you flew in by air, that did not count against you two visa exempts by land.
If you are from a visa on arrival country, then you qualify for unlimited visa on arrivals, BUT I don't think you can use the Kanchanburi/ Myanmar border.
See:
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