As you've already noticed, both the retirement and marriage Non-O routes become tricky when starting from visa exempt, mainly because opening a Thai bank account normally requires a long-term visa first. It creates that catch-22 situation.
We assist with both retirement and marriage Non-O visas, and we can also help with opening a bank account while you are on exempt entry or a tourist visa if your intention is to convert to a Non-O from within Thailand.
If the goal is to stay until May without leaving, the retirement route is usually the most straightforward when going through an agency. It allows everything to be completed within a few days: bank account, Non-O conversion, and the one-year extension. The marriage route is also possible but tends to take longer, and if you rely on an agency for yearly renewals it often ends up costing more over time. The marriage route is best if you plan to work in Thailand or are comfortable handling future renewals yourself.
If you'd rather not convert inside Thailand, another option is to apply for the Non-O in a neighboring country such as Laos (Vientiane or Savannakhet), Vietnam, or Malaysia. That is quite common. You could also wait and apply in the UK before returning later in the year if that fits your travel timing better. Both approaches are valid.
Regarding border runs, yes, you can do runs instead of extending to 90 days. If you already plan to travel to Vietnam or Laos, that works fine. Just keep in mind that border runs have become more strict in 2025. Doing one or two is usually fine, but if you do it repeatedly, immigration may start asking questions about your intent to stay long term (we do offer pre-screening services to avoid issues).
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