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Why did you choose to settle in Thailand and what other countries were you considering?

Apr 11, 2026
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Janice *****
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Why did you finally settle with a Thai visa? And which countries did you consider in the run-up to Thailand?
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The post discusses the reasons why expats choose to settle in Thailand as opposed to other countries they considered, such as Cambodia, Vietnam, Mexico, and various options in Central America and Southeast Asia. Many expats cite Thailand's high-quality healthcare, friendly locals, and good infrastructure as key factors in their decision. Others highlight the challenges of living in neighboring countries, such as the frequent natural disasters in the Philippines or the lifestyle in Laos being less appealing. Personal stories contrast experiences across different countries, revealing that while some expats are satisfied with their life in Thailand, others explore alternatives.
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Bo**
I couldn't get a girlfriend anywhere and I can be a weekend millionaire.
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Jonathan **********
You’ll have to qualify your question as it is horribly ambiguous. Any tourist coming into the country needs a visa or visa waiver, and if one wants to live here you’ll need a visa. If you have never been to Thailand your question is about as insipid as asking why do people like to walk in the sunshine?
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Carey *********
I am American , I have lived in Italy, France , Switzerland, Japan and the P.I. I have visited over 25 countries and I like Thailand the most
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Jim *******
My Thai wife, living with me in Japan, our Thai daughter living in Australia, both Thai citizens with Thai passports, Thai IDs, do not want to go to Thai. We have a Hawaii style condo in Bangkok, they dont give a shit.
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Shane ************
Thailand is a toilet but I work in bigger toilets nearby
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Stéfan ********
Vietnam and Cambodia, which I love. I spent more than a decade in Thailand (had a wife, speak Thai and even ran a business), and I now want to experience other countries.
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For me it was in-between Thailand and the Philippians. The only thing that made the Phils a strong contender was that most of the population speaks some level of English. However, the constant bombardment of typhoons (21 typhoons made direct landfall in the Phils in 2025) volcanos, earthquakes, electrical brown & blackouts, as well as the constant begging (especially by groups of children) were things I found unappealing. The language barrier in Thailand is still a challenge but the infrastructure is significantly better, the healthcare is on par with many Western countries, my electricity rarely goes out and although we did feel the effects of a large earthquake centered in Myanmar last year, earthquakes aren't nearly as common as the are in the Phils (the Phils sits directly on top of the Pacific ring of fire.) On the other hand, if I lived in the Phils I'd be eligible for the SRRV visa and my understanding is that this visa is much easier and less expensive than the retirement visa requirements in TL. There are pros and cons in every decision.
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Daniel *********
The woman I married and love here for life would have been very upset if I applied for a visa in a different country.
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Martin **********
Daniel Werning I did. She is from Philippines, live in Thailand
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Daniel *********
Martin Mairesse Everyone has a different situation. She explained hers, you've explained yours, I explained mine.
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Han ********
Surprising answers.. I never considered any other country. And wasn't in a relationship either. Even today I don't think of any other place I'd rather be.
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Paul ********
iv travelled over 50 countries and travelled them well, no where else felt like home like thailand does, not even home felt like home anymore.
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Rohbear *********
Mexico, Costa Rica, Ecuador. Beautiful countries, all three. Decided I don't like the "machismo" Latin culture, or the food very much (because I'm vegetarian). Thai culture is second to none. Just visited Bali for the first time last month. Major points for how common it is to find English speaking natives there (probably 90% with rudimentary skills). Friendly people. But the transportation infrastructure is as bad as The Philippines (horrible), and I think Thai food is much, much better.
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Bruce ************
Equador. No contest. Thailand won hands down.
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ExcitingO*********
High quality healthcare, kid safe, kind people, good infrastructure, large expat communities, English is widley spoken, 420 and LGBT friendly
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Gary ************
I agree with that.

I’m 63 years old and kinda over the clubs , rooftop bars etc … maybe that’s my problem . But I am a 63 years old that look and act 43 lol

I don’t want to be around a bunch of retired folks in hua hin or Pattya -

But you are right - Bangkok is still the best choice in Thailand . I probably need to travel more to the other provinces . Thanks for your feedback and perspective .
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Petr *********************
Gary Hutcherson what about pollution? I wouldn't compromise my health living in mainland Thailand!!!
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Paul ********
Gary Hutcherson phuket is nice, if you stay away from patong
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Bill *********
Took a holiday trip around Singapore Malaysia and Thailand 25 years ago. Thailand was so cool I spent all of my very short holidays in Bangkok for the next several years loving the city and country more each time, determined to eventually retire here. Mission accomplished and it has not let me down. Other countries in SE Asia (except the Philippines) are great to visit, but not to live. I discover more all the time; never bored and incredibly inexpensive. And the nightlife is epic!
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Nicknam*******
I think you're a bit confused. We aren't getting a visa somewhere just to get a visa somewhere.

There was no "finally settle" decision. The motivation was from the internal question of "how can I stay here longer?"
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3 why?
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Michael ******
Panama, Costa rica, Belize...then I met and married a thai woman
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Andrew *********
Mauritius 🦤 60 days on arrival. I know it's not part of Asia but if you fancy a change like I did. Give it a bash. It's only an island the size of what feels like Bali but it's a country. 👍
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Terary **********
Philippines and Indonesia (Bali) as alternatives. A friend gave me a pretty good deal on a condo in Pattaya so I chose here, but I was considering moving to Bali when I made that decision.
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Gareth ********
Vietnam is up there with Thailand for me. They are both different though and Thailand probably edges it overall. Both are great.
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Gary ************
I’m living in Bangkok but will explore Vietnam. Bangkok can get old really fast . It’s very transactional.

Maybe other parts of Thailand are different but I’m over Bangkok lol

You can only shop, eat , drink so much . That’s really all Bangkok has to offer in my opinion . Similar to NYC but a tad less expensive.

Vietnam would seem to offer a more cultural experience . Thailand has become very westernized and not as cheap as it once was.

Plus … it’s a lot different living here than being here on holiday .
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Bill *********
Gary Hutcherson Perhaps my time in Bangkok has been much shorter then yours, but the city brings me new adventures all the time. Never boring. I have 104 nightclubs/skybars on my list to visit. And the restaurants...well too numerous to mention. Compared to NYC, far better climate (heat is no bother), more friendly people, far safer with no dangerous areas, and lots of gorgeous girls that don't think they're prima donnas. Lastly Bangkok is probably a quarter to half the cost of the US; incredibly inexpensive.
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Octo *******
Gary Hutcherson wow. Interesting perspective. How much of Thailand have you explored? If not a lot, I recommend getting a decent motorcycle and hitting the road.

Vietnam isn’t too bad, but is a couple levels below Thailand in my opinion.

Culture? From a historical, “Smithsonian” style perspective, I’d say a Thailand still edges Vietnam a bit.

As for activities/opportunities/lifestyle, Thailand is a clear winner - music festivals, sports, live entertainment, availability of high end products for specialized hobbies (metal/woodworking, machine shop tools), etc.

Over the last decade I’ve spent 4 years living in Vietnam. Have spent a couple months at a time in many places around Thailand. Will move to Thailand this year and am looking forward to the change very much.
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Jim *******
Octo Adven Over 26 years, we have been to every place in Thailand. 35,000 km. Our own car, hotels, everywhere. Real tourists. A special dedicated trip was to tour the whole of Isan. With Thai wife, she knew where to go and what to see. Nothing like googlers here.

Certainly, we saw nice people and armpits where they live but nothing like a place we would like better than Japan or Australia.
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Clifton ************
Octo Adven ABSOLUTELY agree. I love the mountains and outdoors, I think Vietnam wins there BUT as you mentioned overall it’s a fewer levels lower than Thailand on the other things that wouldn’t make it hard to live here just a bit more navigating you’d need to do.

The visa situation to me is actually better in Vietnam just doing border runs compared to all the changes in Thailand all the time.
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David *******
Thai food
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Anna ****
I am a car fan and thailand has a great car culture. I like it here.
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Frank **********
Only reason I am here is because of my Thai wife.
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only reason?!
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Frank **********
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3 yes.
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@Frank *********
Is that because she cannot come to your country? I had a lot of bad luck since I am here, often thinking going back to Europe. But living there is also problematic and expensive
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Frank **********
Martin Mairesse at the time I thought I would stay Thailand until I die but one reason I don't want to stay here is the unrelenting heat and humidity. I love the 4 different seasons in my country. Another reason is to bring my wife to the US so eventually she can get survivors Social Security when I die. She has to spend 5 years in the US to qualify. She can still visit in Thailand during that time.

I presently have all the Immigration paperwork done and the Embassy interview scheduled but unfortunately after all that there is a temporary freeze on Immigration visas for Thais. Also even though costs are high in the US and the political situation is chaos I still love my country, miss my family and miss the food too.😁😁😁😁
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Ant ***********
Thailand 🇹🇭

There are cheaper places

Other countries not enough infrastructure

Especially low quality health systems .
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Samuel *******
Malaysia is better in terms of infrastructure. Good English speaking country too. Maybe only lacking is they don't offer much sex life experience like most ueropeans seeking in Thailand. My 2 cents.
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Clifton ************
Ant W Tailor that’s pretty much my same reason. It’s hard to beat the infrastructure of Thailand compared to the other countries you could move to.
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Milo *********
Cambodia 🤣 I mean you won't back to Thailand
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PeacefulSe**********
Why? They kill the tourists in Cambodia?
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Milo *********
PeacefulSeahorse9792 maybe 🤔 but sometimes Thai immigration denied you to get in to Thailand
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PeacefulSe**********
Of you fellow the rules it’s not that difficult.
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Steve ***************
You make the option sound so singular. Although I have a Thai Non O extension of stay based on retirement, I only spend 5 months of the year in the Land of Smiles. 4 months is spent in Vietnam and I return to my farmhouse in southwest France for 3 months during the European summer to miss the worst of South East Asia's wettest months. We are not trees, we are free to move around. I am currently in Phu Quoc avoiding Songkran.
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Daniel *********
Steve Kelly Photos Some of us here are trees, and we love it.
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Steve ***************
Daniel Werning each to his own.
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Karma *******
Steve Kelly Photos love your style
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Ricardo ***********
Steve Kelly Photos no we're not, most people are prisoners of money and therefore cannot move as they please.
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Nicknam*******
Ricardo Alexandre true, most people are unwilling or afraid to take the necessary risks to unlock such a lifestyle
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Steve ***************
Ricardo Alexandre sadly, that's a cage people make for themselves. I have travelled the world almost all of my adult life on a shoestring budget. Some of the best experiences came from lack of funds. I bought a 300 plus year old wreck of a home in Aveyron France that I have been restoring for over two decades, the work carried out by my own hand, as have always had more time than money. I did this simply not to need a mortgage, a millstone around my neck. I have never owned a new car, so no exorbitant finance needed. I don't even own a TV, prefering to live my life, rather than watch other people's lives. My home is spartan, my entertainment centre is a bookcase. We all start with the same options, it's the choices that we make that control future freedom. I hope that you are able to attain whatever you dream of.
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Petr *********************
Steve Kelly Photos beautiful, owning a castle, congratulations, leaving some legacy
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Doug *******
Steve Kelly Photos

“We all start with the same options”?

Do you view life through a straw?
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Steve ***************
Doug Olson you miss my point, we are all free to make life's decisions. Unless you live in an autocratic state. I was born into a poor Welsh family, and have never been gifted an inheritance. I, like most people worked hard for the money earned. It's what we choose to saddle ourselves with after that first paycheck that allows or denies our future freedoms.
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Doug *******
Steve Kelly Photos I understood your point and as a songwriter have lived with a very similar approach to life.

But MY point is that many people are born with disabilities, or are victims of circumstance. Every journey has different challenges.
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John *******
Ricardo Alexandre so true
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Michael ********
Been to them all since first visiting Hua Hin in Thailand in 1989, all ways came back here, now at my age, for good !
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Potpon******
I considered Cambodia easiest visas in SEAsia

Malaysia for the MM2H

Lao due to easy visas but the lifestyle is kind of boring
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