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What visa options should I consider for retiring in Thailand while navigating US immigration for my stepchildren?
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Jan 15, 2026
3 months ago
Terence ******************
ORIGINAL POSTERHello there! I’d like some advice here regarding the best course of action in my particular case. I am currently married to a Thai woman who has two children from a previous relationship. We currently live in the USA, she is here on a CR-1, and our kids (ages 6 & 12) remain in Thailand with extended family while she becomes acclimated. We have submitted I-130’s for both kids and the plan is for them to join us here in the states prior to the beginning of the 2026 school year. The “plan” is to be here long enough for my wife to become a citizen, and both children to at least achieve LPR status, but during that timeframe, approximately 3 years, we plan on traveling back and forth between our countries on a fairly regular basis. Ya see the thing is we are still unsure as to where we eventually where we want to make the primary residence, much will depend on how the kids adapt. If it was not for the kids we would probably settle in Thailand, however there is a lot more opportunity for them here in the USA. So you can see this is a bit of a cluster 😎.
Taking that into account the prospect of retiring in Thailand remains a strong possibility, and in the very least we would be visiting at least twice a year for at least a month each time. I was wondering if I should begin pursuing a retirement visa or DTV or simply rely on tourist visas until we have a more definitive plan 🙀. However any way it goes we will be coming and going from both countries on an ongoing basis. I might add that we own homes in both countries and also have bank accounts in both as well. I’ve been monitoring the visa changes for some time now and it has been, shall we say, a bit unsettling. What appears to be the rule one day changes the next and it’s nerve wracking. So any advice you can offer will be greatly appreciated. I realize I’m all over the place and may be coming off as a bit of a “nob” but I could really use some good advice…thank you very much 🙏🏼
Taking that into account the prospect of retiring in Thailand remains a strong possibility, and in the very least we would be visiting at least twice a year for at least a month each time. I was wondering if I should begin pursuing a retirement visa or DTV or simply rely on tourist visas until we have a more definitive plan 🙀. However any way it goes we will be coming and going from both countries on an ongoing basis. I might add that we own homes in both countries and also have bank accounts in both as well. I’ve been monitoring the visa changes for some time now and it has been, shall we say, a bit unsettling. What appears to be the rule one day changes the next and it’s nerve wracking. So any advice you can offer will be greatly appreciated. I realize I’m all over the place and may be coming off as a bit of a “nob” but I could really use some good advice…thank you very much 🙏🏼
TLDR : Answer Summary
The poster is navigating U.S. immigration for their Thai wife and her two children while considering potential retirement in Thailand. Currently residing in the U.S. on a CR-1 visa, the couple has submitted I-130 petitions for the children, aiming for their arrival before the 2026 school year. Frequent travel between the U.S. and Thailand is planned, but the family is unsure about their long-term residence due to children's adaptability. The poster seeks advice on whether to pursue a retirement visa, a DTV visa, or rely on tourist visas during this transitional phase. Responses highlight factors influencing visa choices based on travel frequency, potential residency bans affecting visa applications, children's educational opportunities in both countries, and the evolution of visa regulations over time.
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Eric **********
I agree with John’s comment. Keep in mind if your wife can get US citizenship she will be able to collect Social Security benefits while living in Thailand. Could be important.
John *********
Over the past 40 years, visa, residency, green card, and citizenship rules have evolved, but not in ways that prevent determined families from succeeding. This path still works. Think of the children — their future earning potential in the U.S. may be 5 to 50 times greater. Citizenship for your wife is a realistic milestone, not a long shot. Stay focused. Stay the course.
Deepak *******
An American lawyer named Ben is currently in Bangkok and has a YouTube channel. There is a ban on immigrant visas from 75 countries, including Thailand, based on excessive public welfare by those nationalities in the USA. You can consult Ben for further advice and courses of action.
Pete *******
I think Trump has just f**ked your plans…
Janice ********
One of the Children are 12 and It in my opinión is too late for them. They are going into one of the most difficult stages of their Life being a teenager.
Its such a massive adjustment for them .
Its such a massive adjustment for them .
Steve *******
If you're only visiting Thailand for a month twice a year then you'll be fine entering with visa exemptions. If you plan to stay long term then the Non Imm O based on marriage or being 50 or over(if you are) with yearly extensions of stay would be your best bet 👍
Kim *******
I'm also American, and I have a 12 year old daughter. Never automatically assume that America offers many more opportunities than Thailand. This is seriously flawed thinking in my opinion. Thailand has some excellent international schools, if you can afford them. Thailand also has some top notch government and private schools; which aren't quite as expensive as the international ones. However, these schools are highly competitive for admission. All of these schools have strong English and Chinese language programs. Let's just say your children have dual citizenship and become fluent in Thai, Chinese and English. Which is fairly easily doable here. My daughter is just finishing P6, and she's already well on the way. In this scenario, you don't think there's opportunities awaiting? My daughter also does Taekwondo (brown belt currently) and some clothing modelling ( low pay, but great experience). Opportunity abounds here. Way moreso than in America IMO.
Eric **********
@Kim ******
But well paying jobs for university graduates are few and far between.Deepak *******
@Kim ******
If America does not offer more opportunities, then how come the average income of many Asian ethnicities, including Thai, is more than that of native-born European Americans?Jim *******
@Kim ******
My Thai daughter is about the age of the girl in the picture. She is a karate black belt, Japan Karate Federatrion. My greetings to you.Kim *******
@Jim ******
good for you. And your daughter. Martial arts are great for both the physical and the mental.Reply to
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John ********
Contact US Immigration for the correct answers!
John *******
Have you seen the ban on Thai applicants for resident visas that was announced yesterday? Will this impact your wife’s children?
Jim *******
@John ******
That is from now on, while it lasts. OP said they are already in the US.Andy *****
@Jim ******
No. The current administration stopped/paused all applications for residency for about 75 countries and Thailand is one of them. Tourist and student visas are not affected - but ALL others are unfortunately. ****************************************************************
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9Kim **********
@Jim ******
right but his questions about the kids who don’t have visas and presumably now cannot get them.Jim *******
@Kim *********
There has to be some way. When I moved my Thai wife and our daughter from Thai to Japan, they got 5 years visa and then permanent residence. Our daughter (22) even became Japanese national, has Japan passport. Maybe, pervesely, our daughter with 3 passports and 3 nationalities (Thai, Australia, Japan) now studies in Australia and has no intrention to leave Australia.Bob **********
@Jim ******
he’s asking about AmericaJohn *******
@Jim ******
- These are the children of his Thai wife, not his children. These new bans impact all residency visas, which include family members. Several of these countries received their bans a few months ago. Been following a couple who adopted a child in Nigeria, who now can’t get a visa for that baby. They are stuck in Nigeria, because they refuse to leave their adopted baby behind. This ban is going to impact Americans with Thai families.Fizul *********
@Jim ******
Don't blame her. Down under is the better choice.Reply to
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Brandon ************
Mostly depends on how often you actually plan to go there and back.
If maybe 2 times per year, you can apply for a new 90-day non-E each time and that will let you open a bank account and keep it open, etc.
You could throw in a visa exempt entry maybe if you want to do 3 times per year.
If more than that, it would probably easier to look into something like DTV or Non-OA if you're over 50.
If maybe 2 times per year, you can apply for a new 90-day non-E each time and that will let you open a bank account and keep it open, etc.
You could throw in a visa exempt entry maybe if you want to do 3 times per year.
If more than that, it would probably easier to look into something like DTV or Non-OA if you're over 50.
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