@Anthony ********
that you were told this does NOT mean it is a real rule, just that the told you it was and you didn't know the real rules about it well enough to question them on it 😕 BUT I am not disputing you were told that at all.
At MOST immigration offices there is NO seasoning required for the initial 90 day non-O visa (based on any reason), the seasoning comes into play only when you go to get the year extension after the initial 90 days from the Non-O runs down. AND the seasoning based on marriage and retirement 2 months before no matter what your office says it is. That's how the current police order is written.