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VAT is the same for everything, it's 7%.
The duty varies. Most common if something has duty is 10%, so if something is valued at 100 + 10% = 110 + 7% VAT = 117.7.
You can look up duty in the tariff database. It generally gives an ad valorem rate of 40% but actual duty is lower than this. You need to select "General Rate Section 12" to get the actual rate. This is often 10% or duty exempted.
Some specific things may require an import license, which can further complicate things.
The reality is somewhere between people saying it's impossible and possible. It's not always that expensive. But it's not necessarily easy either.
With secondhand stuff you can run into the whole question of valuation. It's easier with new stuff. If you are asked to prove a value for something, what can you do? And this is where it gets into "they make it up".
But clothes are one of the worst things you can import, it's maybe counter-intuitive, you might not think the duty would be much higher on your old pair of jeans and zero on an expensive laptop, but that is actually the reality.
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