The second option – apply inside Thailand:
*** you can apply for a 60 days single entry Tourist Visa in your home country or enter Thailand “visa-exempt” (without a visa)
Enter Thailand, you will get stamped in for a 60-days stay permit, and as soon as possible, open a bank account in your sole name (if you haven’t done so yet) and deposit a minimum of 400.000.- THB
As of recently, opening a Thai bank account on a tourist visa or visa-exempt, has become VERY difficult. I suggest you ask visa agencies before you travel, if they are able and willing to open a Thai bank account for you, and how much it will cost.
Get a statement from the Thai bank over the deposit, and visit Immigration. There you apply for the “change of visa type” – a conversion from the 60-days tourist visa or the “visa-exempt entry”, to a “90-days Non-Imm-O Family Visa”
You need a minimum of 15 working days left on your stay permit to be allowed the application to the “change”
The 90-days Non-Imm-O Visa will be issued “under consideration” for 15 days. After this waiting period you can pick it up on Immigration.
As soon as there are 30 days left on this 90-days stay permit, you can apply for the “1-year Extension of Stay Permit based on marriage to a Thai wife”.
On the day of application to the EOS, the deposit of a minimum of 400.000.- THB must have seasoned for 2 months, proven with a letter from the bank
NOTE: as a U.S. and UK citizen, you cannot use the income method for the financial proof, as you first need a summary of 12 months of transfers to your Thai bank account coming in from abroad.
The U.S., Australian and the British embassy do not issue “income affidavits” any more. Other countries’ embassies however might still issue them, and they can be used for the financial proof of monthly income
The 1-year EOS will be issued “under consideration” for 4 weeks, and Immigration will visit you and your wife at home and interview your neighbors if your marriage is for real
Once having been issued a “1-year Extension of Stay based on marriage” it has an expiry of validity date, and you will need to apply again every other year, under the same requirements
FEEL FREE to read the following – requirements for a “change of visa type” from a Tourist Visa or a Visa Exempt, to the 90-days Non-Imm-O Family Visa
************************************************************************************************************************************************
*******
/6.FOR-PROVIDING-SUPPORT-TO-OR-BEING-A-DEPENDANT-OF-A-THAI-CITIZEN-SPOUSE-VISA-NON-O.pdf