I'm going to shut this down.
1. This post is turning into a discussion about the terrible STV. If a person qualifies for any other type of visa, they should apply for that visa before thinking about the STV.
2. You qualify for EITHER a Non-O visa based on marriage with a one year extension of stay based on marriage OR a Non-O visa based on being over 50 with a one year extension of stay based on retirement, or a Non-OA visa. All of these visas/ extension of stays will let you stay in Thailand for the length of time you want to stay.
3. For details on how to get the visas/ extension of stays, see this post
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The information in that post applies to you as well.
If anyone wants this post reopen, please send a mod a message.
Thank you.