@Gary ********
in the phone settings you can choose which is primary for data, and which is default for outgoing calls. For most people they'll also want to turn off data roaming for the one that isn't the location where you're at just to make sure, since data roaming can be very expensive. You should be able to receive text messages and phone calls for both numbers regardless of where you're at. I never answer phone calls from the place I'm not at because it's expensive, but receiving a phone call is usually enough for me to know what it was about to text back or take care of it some other way.